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✦  TODAY IN DREAM SIGNS
How to keep one
Most of a dream is gone before your feet touch the floor, so the first minute is the whole of it.
I LOSE MINE TOO
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TODAY’S SYMBOL
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WEDNESDAY, 26 AUGUST
Dear friend,
I lost a whole dream yesterday morning between the bed and the kettle, which is a poor showing from a man who writes to you about dreams.
It was all there when I opened my eyes, then I got up to put the kettle on, and by the time it boiled there was nothing left but the fact that there had been something.
Plenty of you wrote in after Monday to say much the same, that you know you were running from something but cannot get any further back than that, so today is about the getting further back.
Marta could only tell me about her mother in the corridor because she caught it while it was still going, and that is the only reason yesterday’s letter existed.
 
Why they go
Dreams are stored badly, if they are stored at all. A dream behaves in the memory less like yesterday afternoon and more like a name you were told at a party.
There is work with sleep recordings suggesting that the brain in the minutes before you wake has to do roughly what it does when it files an ordinary memory, and where that pattern is missing, the dream goes with it.
Another line of it points at the people who surface briefly in the night, the ones who call themselves poor sleepers, since those brief wakings look like a large part of why some people remember so much.
Which is a rough trade, so if you sleep straight through and come up to an alarm, you are not bad at dreaming, you are being pulled out of the water too fast to bring anything with you.
“ A dream behaves in the memory less like yesterday afternoon and more like a name you were told at a party.
 
The first minute
Stay exactly as you are when you wake, because the position you slept in seems to hold the thing, and rolling over is usually enough to tip it out.
Then say it in one plain line before you reach for anything, since picking up a phone wakes the part of you that wants to be sensible, and the feeling goes out with it.
Put the feeling down before the story, because you can rebuild a corridor from the words I was frightened and could not stop, while no list of events will give you the fear back.
None of that is difficult, though all of it has to happen before your feet touch the floor.
 
Keeping them
Paper beats a phone for one dull reason, which is that paper does not light up, and light at that hour ends the whole business before you have written a word.
Write it as though it is still happening, so that you stay inside it a little longer, and save the last line for whatever you cannot explain, the coat, the slippers, the room you had forgotten was in the house.
Give it a fortnight before you judge it, since recall builds slowly and the first mornings are mostly blank, mine included.
✦  WRITE BACK
Two things keep a dream, staying still and writing it down, and I would like to know which of them does the work for you.
TELL ME WHICH ONE
My notebook goes back on the floor by the bed tonight, where it lived for years before I got clever and bought a nice one that sits on a shelf and stays empty.
Sleep well,
Dream Signs
 
P.S. My neighbour, who has never read a word of this, told me on the stairs that she writes hers on the back of her hand when she cannot find a pen, then washes it off in the shower before she has read it. Tell me where you write yours. She did not seem to think this was a problem.
✦  TONIGHT’S PRACTICE
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Do not move yet
Put something to write on within reach before you sleep. In the morning, stay in the position you woke in and say the dream to yourself in one line, then move.
TELL ME WHAT YOU KEPT
✦  MANIFESTATION TIP
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Use the same minute
While the pen is already in your hand, write the one thing you want today underneath the dream, before you have started arguing with yourself about it.
WHAT CAME BACK
Something happened after a dream? Tell me
 
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Dream it. Sign it. Live it.
 
 

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