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✦  TODAY IN DREAM SIGNS
What the Word Nightmare Used to Mean
It was a creature before it was a dream, and you can still change it after the fact.
I WILL TRY THIS TONIGHT
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TODAY’S PRACTICE
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WEDNESDAY, 14 OCTOBER
Dear friend,
Last night I did not want to open the notebook. The dream was ugly enough that putting it on paper felt like going back in.
So I left it on the floor. (Brave of me.)
That feeling, the one where a bad dream sits in your chest into the next day, is older than you would guess, and the word for it is stranger than you think.
 
Where the Word Comes From
In Old English, "maere" did not mean a dream at all. It meant a demon, a creature that crept into the room at night and sat on your chest while you slept.
The word "nightmare" kept that creature in its bones long after anyone stopped believing in it, because for most of history the thing that woke you gasping was not something your mind did to itself. People said you were visited, not troubled, and this is what they said about those dreams for a very long time.
Whether or not you believe that, the experience is common. About eighty-five percent of adults report at least one nightmare in a year, and between two and six percent have them every week.
The creature is a story, but the feeling is not, and if something that common has been happening that long, somebody should have found a way to change it.
“ The dream was ugly enough that putting it on paper felt like going back in.
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What You Can Do After the Fact
Image rehearsal therapy asks you to do something odd. You write down a recurring bad dream, then rewrite it while awake: a different ending, a different place, a different thing you do in it. Then you rehearse the new version in your mind for ten to twenty minutes a day.
I am not sure something that simple should work. But the American Academy of Sleep Medicine gave it their highest mark, the only behavioral treatment for nightmares at that level. A review of sixty-nine studies found strong evidence that it cuts how often they come and how far they carry into the day.
What sets it apart from the kind of work that takes years is that it does not try to explain the dream or find its cause. It changes the picture, and most of the time that is enough.
 
When It Is More Than Ordinary
Most of the time. But the Mayo Clinic says to see a doctor if nightmares happen often and persist, or if they make you afraid to go to sleep.
Tonight, if there is one that keeps returning: put it on paper, then underneath, a second version where one thing is different. Not a happy ending, just a different one. Read the new version before you close your eyes, and let it sit where the old picture was.
✦  WRITE BACK
If you try the rewrite tonight, tell me how it went.
TELL ME HOW IT WENT
I opened the notebook this morning. Smaller than it seemed.
Sleep well,
Dream Signs
 
P.S. My neighbour told me she has had the same nightmare since she was twelve. If yours had someone else in it, tell me who else was in the room. She said, "Same house, same hallway, every time," and went back to her tea.
✦  TONIGHT’S PRACTICE
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The rewrite
If a bad dream has come more than once, write it down, then write a new version where one thing is different. In the morning, note what you dreamed.
TELL ME WHAT YOU WROTE
✦  MANIFESTATION TIP
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One sentence out loud
If there is a worry you have been carrying all week, say it to one person today in one sentence. Not to fix it, just to hear it outside your own head.
WHAT CAME BACK?
Something happen after a dream? Tell me what it was
 
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